GOING HAIRLESS TO ATTRACT WOMEN? YAH RIGHT

Michael
MacKay could be the poster boy for the age of Adonis. With his
shaved and bronzed skin, finely sculpted pecs and abs, his
brilliantly white teeth and spiked blond hair, MacKay typifies
a new generation of young men for whom the look is everything.
They are turning up everywhere -- in classrooms, gymnasiums,
on the beach and in the office. But they are most readily
found in the pages of magazines such as Esquire, Vanity Fair
and GQ where their washboard abs, silky skin and sultry looks
illustrate ads for everything from underwear to cologne.
MacKay, a 24-year-old financial planner in Fredericton, works
out with weights five or six times a week, guzzles protein
drinks and tans year round. "I was skinny in high school and I
wanted to be bigger ... it's all about looking good for the
ladies," he explains. But it is the effort to maintain a
totally hairless body that has presented one of the biggest
challenges in MacKay's pursuit of perfection. "I don't have
hair on my body at all -- anywhere," he says proudly. "I've
waxed and I've done some electrolysis. But I find shaving
better because if I shave every two days, I can stay smooth.
The problem with waxing is you have to let the hair grow for
four weeks to rewax. So in between, your arms and legs are
hairy. MacKay is preparing to shell out at least $1,000 for
laser treatments to remove body hair once and for all.
This
is a major change in body image for men. For those who can still
remember the lush, hairy chests of stars like Sean Connery and
Burt Reynolds -- thick pelts a gal could curl up against --
these new developments are somewhat chilling. Psychologists have
their concerns as well. New studies suggest that media-driven
images of what the new man should look like are having
potentially harmful side effects on some people. Eating
disorders, body obsessions and low physical self-esteem are
becoming almost as common in men as they are in women -- the
gender most affected by advertising portrayals of body
perfection.
"Some
weigh 280 pounds of pure muscle and they still can't take their
shirts off at the beach because they don't feel like they're big
enough for the girls."
Jamie Farquhar, a fourth-year
psychology student at Mount Allison University in Sackville,
N.B., has recently completed the first stage of a research
project looking at the role of the media in male attitudes
towards their bodies. Farquhar, who will be presenting his
findings in January at a psychology symposium in California,
looked at 30 years of advertising in magazines such as Sports
Illustrated and discovered a marked change in how the male body
is presented. He says today's male advertising images are more
nude, more posed and with more emphasis on body parts and the
presentation of the male physique as an object. "If the media is
teaching us to look at the body as an object, then it's no
surprise we're being more critical and less satisfied with our
bodies," Farquhar says. MacKay has seen people go too far with
the Adonis complex, including friends who use steroids --
something he has always avoided. "I have a lot of friends who do
steroids," he says. "Some weigh 280 pounds of pure muscle and
they still can't take their shirts off at the beach because they
don't feel like they're big enough for the girls." Clinical
psychologist Roberto Olivardia of Harvard's McLean Hospital in
Massachusetts and co-author of the groundbreaking book, The
Adonis Complex, says he has treated boys as young as 12 for
steroid abuse.
"A lot
of people hinge their self esteem on the way they look,"
"I think young boys, just like
young girls, know what the cultural scripts are as to what is
the ideal," Olivardia says. Olivardia believes that increased
access to steroids has helped fuel the change in male body
image. He says the drugs, which pump up muscle mass, used to be
the exclusive reserve of body builders. Now kids in junior high
are getting hold of them. He says some men are using the drugs
to help stake out their territory in the war of the sexes. "As
gender roles start to blur, men are almost on a socio-cultural
level striving to assert their masculinity through their bodies
by looking big and muscular," he says. Olivardia says it's a
doomed effort, since the ravages of time and age eventually will
erode any body, no matter how pumped up. "A lot of people hinge
their self esteem on the way they look," he says. "That can
become problematic because trends can change and certainly our
appearance will change. We'll all get old, wrinkled and grey ...
and if you have rested your self esteem on looking good, at some
point you're going to be in trouble." But for his part, MacKay
is already girding his streamlined loins for the battle against
time, as are many other young Adonises. According to the latest
figures from the American Society of Plastic Surgeons, the
number of men seeking minimally invasive procedures such as
Botox injections and laser hair removal grew by 43 per cent from
2000 to 2004, compared with a 35 per cent increase for women.
"This is an area that's evolving," says MacKay, adding that he
already uses moisturizers and skin care products. "I know that
down the road I'll be looking at something like Botox." By Chris
Norries
Idea sprung
from a leak
A home built
for spectacular ocean views was the inspiration for a
high-tech system of detecting water damage

"By the
time you see the damage on the outside, the problem has been
brewing inside for years,"
Leaky homes do not a career
launchpad make, unless the owner of that home happens to be a
fibre-optics engineer with a flare for invention. Dave Vokey,
with his wife Patricia Vokey, built a waterfront retreat along
the shores of Satellite Channel in 1991. The house was the
culmination of a years-long search for an island refuge. "We
came to the Island over and over again looking for the right
property," says Patricia. The property slopes toward an arbutus-
and cedar-forested shore. Offshore, boat sails shine crisp white
against indigo waters, with Saltspring Island's rugged
silhouette as a backdrop. The couple had a three-level home
built, but during the planning stage, Dave had reservations
about certain design elements. He let his concerns go when he
was assured that his worries were for naught. That turned out to
be a mistake. Within a few years, water problems spouted in the
house. Dave attacked the problems with numerous structural
solutions, all the while contemplating how large-scale repairs
could have been avoided." By the time you see the damage on the
outside, the problem has been brewing inside for years," says
Dave. "I wondered if (fibre-optic) technology could be applied
to this problem." If necessity is the mother of invention,
disaster is its midwife. Dave fused his fibre-optics knowledge
with the house's moisture woes and came up with a structural
moisture monitoring system that he christened "Detec." The
system applies remote sensing detectors inside the walls that
feed into a computer that monitors the moisture content in the
wood, a system that is taking hold in multi-family units and
larger buildings up and down the coast.
"If you
catch these things early enough, you can solve your problem,"
A
bedroom, full of natural light and for cooler evenings, a
fireplace.
"If you
catch these things early enough, you can solve your moisture
problem with a caulking gun, instead of a contractor," says
Dave. Although the Vokeys repaired the home to resolve the water
issues, they didn't install a Detec system. "It's too expensive
to install on a single home, especially after construction,"
says Dave. "It's suited to multi-family units that share a
system." Locally, the system has been installed at the new
Aberdeen Hospital, a 45-unit seniors housing complex. The Vokeys
called in interior decorator Sheri Peterson to design a home
that reflects their down-home friendliness and sociable
lifestyle. The result is an energized home environment with more
entertainment zones than it has bedrooms. "Pat loves colour and
shock -- tasteful shock," says Peterson of the house's rich
colour combinations in cobalt, royal purple, sandy gold and
shaded green. A double-door entry opens to a foyer flanked in
mirrors that are etched in a frothing surf pattern, introducing
the home's ocean theme. It's an ironic design choice for a
couple who are making their mark by fighting water problems. A
hallway floored in black granite leads to a sunlit living room
of vaulted ceilings, clerestory windows and a funky fusion of
sandy gold walls patterned with neo-industrial touches against
deep rich purple accents. A wall of cabinets glazed in what
Peterson dubs "broken bus stop glass" stands behind a
granite-clad bar. The granite runs down the bar sleeve in the
same foaming wave pattern of the etched mirrors and repeats in
the granite backsplash. The silhouette of
the broken-edged granite is not by happenstance. "It mimics the
shape of Saltspring Island in the mirror," says Peterson. Rich
purple armchairs that Pat refers to as her "Jetson chairs," for
their futuristic outerspace curves, pair off with a more
traditionally cut, sand-hued upholstered sofa.
The
sun room are perfect places to sit, sip coffee and plan your
day.
The elegant touches are
lightened with whimsical folk-art canine sculptures, a hint at
the couple's involvement with animal humane societies. "We have
three rescued dogs," says Pat. Her husband laughs. "They were
all 'foster' animals," says Dave. "Years later, they're still
here." Bevelled-glass french doors open to a formal dining room,
its purple walls striated in sheen and matte finishes. More
french doors open to a glorious sunroom, decorated in jungle
prints and wickers. "It's the smallest room in the house, but
it's the one we spend the most time in," says Dave. Beyond the
dining room, french doors open to the kitchen where designer
Peterson married ultra-industrial corrugated steel cabinetry
with subtle pear woods and granites and citrus walls. The floors
are covered in blonded oak hardwood. The wave theme continues in
the artwork and in draperies that are cut along undulating
lines. The water pattern surfaces again at the ground level
where slate floors meet white-sand coloured berber carpets in an
curling wave. The custom-designed curved couch's back is cut to
replicate ocean swells and even the barstools along the granite
bar flow in the same surging pattern. The wall behind the bar
features a large glass plate etched with martini glasses and
whitecapped waves. The couple loved working with their designer,
but the glass-wall feature was one spot where they put the
brakes on one of her ideas. "Sheri wanted to have a water
feature running down the wall and I said, 'No!'" says Dave,
laughing. "All I could see was more leaks." By JoAnne Hathery
